de-quote

“My friend said that god wants us to meet all the wrong people before we meet the right one. We're supposed to grow stronger by meeting all these wrong people - so we can get through the trials and tribulations of the claptrap dramas a man and a woman like to knock out of proportions. It is from these beaten up relationships we mature into sensible human beings that will ready us for the `one’.

So now, we have each other to thank. As much as we want so
bad to be so right for each other, it's just not possible. Not at this moment, not in this lifetime. All we have are just words and that speck of light memory. All we can do is just take everything in; the good and the bad, and rub in anything positive we might salvage from the nonsense we have created.”

- paragraph quote of the day, by Diba

Reflections:

Nonsense and rubbish!
Reality and fact!

Sounds rubbish that we’re going to meet all the wrong people before we meet the right one, but it’s a fact that we risk ourselves by even judging the right from the wrong one. You will never know whomever you’re with now is going to be forever right or forever wrong FOR you. You fiddle with the most dangerous element Pandora managed to keep in her frightful box with the risk you take – hope.

I think honesty is the heart to any beating relationship. When you have a foundation of truth, it is slightly easier to take a step back and readjust any mishaps in the many dramas men and women create. It’s much easier than having to keep track of your lies. May this be a relationship between friends, boyfriends & girlfriends, husbands & wives, secret admirers, family, bosses & employees and of course, the affairs. (fucking affairs!)

In today’s messed up reality, honesty is just a fairytale. Just from my many observations of the many boyfriend-girlfriend productions my friends and colleagues play and tell, honesty is so distant. Who am I to say, to judge? I’m such a neutralist wannabe but not doing such a good job at it. All I know men and women, both cannot be trusted.. cause we are all just humans, and we’re freaking horrible at trying to make being humans work.